I highly recommend you do not hook up at your place.
When it’s ok to hook up at your place:
- You are 100% absolutely certain that your girl will not be coming home. The only times I’ve hooked up at my place, my girl has been out of town, out of state. No chance of a pop-in there!
- You do not have any close neighbors. If you live in a subdivision, you can guarantee that your neighbors are watching. This could especially be bad if you are your girl are friends with neighbors. Some may say something to her.
When it’s not ok to hook up at your place.
- When you girl is at work. Just because she’s at work doesn’t mean shit. She may decide to surprise you on her lunch break, she might be sick, or she may simply have gotten done early. You simply don’t know when she might show up. Don’t risk it.
- You have close neighbors. If you live in a subdivision or apartment complex, assume your neighbors are watching and that they will tell your girlfriend.
So where do I hook up?
The best place is her place. Simple as that. Don’t try to disguise yourself or anything like that. The more you try to hide yourself, the more attention you will draw. It sounds counterintuitive but that’s just how it is. This is the same way that police work. They look for people acting suspicious because those people stand out like a sore thumb.
Never meet up in public!
This should be obvious but I’ve known quite a few guys who got busted because someone they didn’t even know saw them and told their girlfriend. If you think you live in a big city just start noticing the people around you and how often you encounter those people in places you haven’t seen them before. It really is a small world. Your girlfriend’s friends are everywhere and you don’t know them all but you can bet your ass if they see you hugged up with some other girl they will whip out their phone so fast it will break the sound barrier.